A bed of nails or a bed of roses

That's very well done, but should anyone expand on it, I hope that there'd be mention of bisexuality. There's a chronic issue of at best, bi-visibility and at worst, rather severe bi-phobia, in queer communities and there is frequently this false dichotomy of queer vs straight, setting up 'queer' narrowly defined as 'cisgendered, same-sex oriented', potentially rendering anyone else who self-identifies under the all-encompassing umbrella of "queer" pushed out and ostracised. It would be very welcomed to see that sort of exclusionary language dealt with -- thank you for attempting to address that with the inclusion of "heterosexism".